While we recognize the somber memories and events of that horrific day ten years ago when so many lives were lost in a surprise terrorist attack, we also want to remember that we have someone special to remember today.
In 1978, Jimmy Carter signed a Presidential Proclamation that stated the Sunday after Labor Day would be set aside to honor all grandparents. And, I’m assuming, great-grandparents as well. At least that’s the case in our house.
I’m going to make sure I give and get a special hug from our little guy, David Lloyd. He has warmed our hearts so many times in his four years on earth. He has certainly enriched our lives in ways we would not have imagined.
Our little guy has a lot of special needs. He struggles with Fragile X syndrome, is legally blind and color blind as well. But, we have received positive information that he is not autistic which often accompanies Fragile X. Although he has developmental issues, he is a bright, active little guy who loves to help around the house and jumps in every chance he gets to do what needs to be done.
He is also one of the funniest little kids I’ve ever met and loves to hug and kiss. Now, what grandparent would not like to receive such love from someone who gives it so freely?
As we remember all who lost their lives 10 years ago, and their loved ones who were left behind, may we also honor those who have come into our lives and brought us such joy and love. That seems to be the way of the world. No matter how much evil surrounds us, God has created a way for us to replenish our souls with innocent, unconditional love.
As I was coming online this morning and wanting to write this post, I ran across a couple of headlines that made my heart sink. I haven’t read the articles yet and probably will not do so as the day is heavy enough. But, there are grandparents out there who’s grandchildren are being withheld from them and that really saddens my heart.
It’s painful enough when people lose a grandchild – I know my cousin’s only grandchild died in a car accident when she was 16-years-old – but to deliberately withhold someone from another family member is just plain wrong. Of course I don’t know the details, but we need to use common sense and walk in love when it comes to family dynamics.
Life is too short for sick emotional games and using children as pawns in a family’s dysfunctional world. We need love! We need forgiveness – sometimes every day! We need to let family members spend time with one another as long as it is safe and healthy to do so.
On this special day, hopefully you will get a chance to hug your grandchild or grandchildren. If they are not nearby, at least I hope you can touch bases with them, hear their voice, share a conversation, let them know how much you love and appreciate them. In other words, have a happy Grandparents Day!
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